Motivate Yourself 1

In step after you finish school and have an education and the teaching of your parents:
Be as you wish to be, not as they want to see.

Intend of your heart, and PROVE Convey to TALK with REAL actions in order to be a BENEFIT for others, it is best that you do not see the

SPIRITUAL NEEDS

Besides carrying out Allah SWT in terms of Amanah Physical needs must also care for and maintain their spiritual development is to be done through the following phases

1. phase doctrinal
And educate and teach SCIENCE KNOWLEDGE to our children according to their age and the rapidly developing power and potential within themselves


2. Exemplary stage
Encourage good deeds based on science and knowledge they have acquired, by way of an example in everyday social

3. sincerity stage
Cultivate and foster a sense of upright in good deeds, avoid doing evil

4. Being a good Containers
An evaluation of what we have done from the first step up to step three above, with faint way their friends, be a good listener, and provide appropriate solutions problems they face

On his way parents should see the development of their age and physical growth, in this case it is based on it's divided into three stages, namely:

1. Since there is no, in Rahim, Toddlers to Teens
2. Adolescent Adult ahead
3. Adult to old age

Physical Growth in Children

For couples who are undergoing mawaddah harmonious family, and warraahmah, need immediate attention besides also must fulfill the spiritual needs of the physical needs (body) to eat good nutritious food and balanced, thus becoming immortal prospective parents based on gender, namely:

1. Dad will produce sperm
2. Mother will produce eggs

Similarly, after having children also need to address the well-, The trust in God, care for and maintain their physical growth we need to look at the system of human metabolism, namely:

1. Digestive System
2. Transportation system of the body
3. Neural system and bone
4. Spending systems
5. system anatomy

Growth so that it can run better then deducted the source of water, earth, fire, and air. So as to meet the physical growth of our children, substance is a substance needed by our children's physical awarded based on age, respectively. In general we can tell based substances needed by the body, namely:

1. carbohydrate
2. protein
3. vitamin
4. Minerals, calcium, phosphorus, iron
5. fat

In the age of the baby should be given to our children aged 20 years or older, so that he does not suffer from malnutrition in the growth period. Besides, it also must be considered in providing the physical needs of the intake, should be through the following three stages:

1. Infants and up to age 5 years
2. Adolescence (6-20 years)
3. Adult (21-age limit)

Thus a brief description so that it can be a useful reference for readers

Harmonious family, a good example for mankind and Beneficial

The basis of family formation is because the LORD GOD of Heaven and Earth, which is mandated to parents to educate and teach the spiritual and physical as well as preparing their children to the marriage.

On the basis that the Prophet Muhammad, to make it as Sunnah to be used as a good example to his people by marrying Siti Khadijah for God

Then he pointed to his son menajari menddik and the spiritual and physical Fatmah until he was ready to take to the marriage. He previously was to educate and teach up first shalehah wife as a woman, so that it can be emulated his wife and daughter taught to

Prophet Muhammad SAW in educating and teaching, is a good example to mankind in 2 things:

1. Maintain and increase the physical volume of their children
2. Filling, add, improve in order to reach her ​​full assurance of spiritual children

In accordance with the development of his young age, it can be divided into three stages, namely:

1. childhood
2. adolescent
3. adult

Thus a brief description so that could be a source of useful reading

Passed to the child childhood Teens

Before you go any further then the two men had been intending to go undergo marriage to form a harmonious family, mawaddah, and warrahmah, they had been in the students by their parents first become a pious spouse and shalehah

The greatest gift we have been born beautiful in the world so they can see, hear, feel the warmth of the sun, the cool water cold, things happen unexpectedly during the heat of the day, the cold of snow in the mountains, and the beauty of the underwater world 

However tu we can get after we grow and evolve as step by step time and space age in which we live, Because we can not transcend our lives as they wish, as there were already set the LORD ALMIGHTY MIGHTY and WISE

When we are born we normally directly speak or be silent because thanks to the Lord can be enjoyed as a HUMAN TRUSTEES, As HUMAN PHYSICAL and SPIRITUAL means comprises, there bodies and there is a spirit that drove.

Based on the above, the parents are required to maintain their children and provide two things:

PHYSICAL needs

Physical needs, needs which adds volume growing body of children ranging from head to toe, are generally divided into three, namely:

• Digestive System
• Circulatory system / Transport
• expenditure system
• Respiratory System
• Anatomi

To air our children are able to enjoy themselves, while the solid ingredients of water, and fiber as well as vitamins need help parents, especially his mother, While his father helped find and provide.

Physical needs can be Obtained from Plants and Animals and water, of the three components of the five major needs to be processed in the body (four five Perfect Fit), namely:

• Carbohydrate (rice, bread, cassava, maize, potato, taro)
• Protein (meat, eggs, tofu, tempeh)
• Vitamin (Fruits)
• Minerals, iron ((Vegetables))
• Vegetable or animal fats (Milk)

Intake in infancy was given through breast milk (ASI), after two years, after the milk in the form of biscuit / bread, porridge and vegetables, milk. over the age of five years before serving as the following:

1. Rice, bread, potatoes, corn, taro, cassava (carbohydrates)
2. Meat, tofu, tempeh, eggs (protein)
3. Vegetables (Mineral, iron, phosphorus, calcium)
4. Fruits (Vitamin)
5. Milk (fat)

In order to meet the needs of our children Physical then have to start early schedule conscious eating and drinking, learning and play them enough rest as well. Not also forgetting shelter (home), and apparel (clothing) they also received special attention.

Example: 

a small entire family (father, mother, and three children) placing a lift home in his parents' house, they even ride there but keep doing activities like their own living at home are: 

Food needs 

Source of income sufficient for a month, with which they manage the diet schedule that suit pretty and balanced nutrition 

Clothing needs 

Source obtained from saving the rest of his income net food requirement, set collected clothes shopping then a year in accordance with the amount of money collected. 

Board needs 

Derived from his father's net income for food and clothing, although they remained aboard to contribute to help pay their electric bills. 

School needs 

Income derived from his father a month after deducting the need for food, clothing reduced, reduced need for boards 

SPIRITUAL NEEDS

On meeting the physical needs special attention, spiritual fulfillment is much more special than physical needs. Away, because the people must begin right Intention for Allah, then do a proper communication to the man as well as his, and perform righteous deeds in action in doing good and abstain from evil 

as an example is: 
Daily activities was not for the money alone, but is intended for Allah by performing activities that make other people helped and beneficial to them, do not engage in activities that harm others 

It could be in the form of activities to serve the Republic of Indonesia (Republic of Indonesia), working as a private employee, doing his own business (self-employed). Whatever shape it ourselves lest ye do Allah prohibited, should hasten to realize the good that is useful for many people 


Remember that we produce today when we brought home, and will be enjoyed by my wife and our children, so if it RESULT comes from intention and process notes Because Allah SWT that we have done their Deliberately spiritual process by entering the wrong needs. While the results derived from the intent and process it early on Because God has started a new development has been the mayor since GOD Almighty in meeting the spiritual needs of his wife and our children

Before the child was born we also have to keep the start of the intention so to speak and behave bus, Talking in accordance with the intent and level it to sell, and behave in accordance with the intended and which have been delivered, Islam when among children born already trained their hearing by listening to prayers call, as it also familiarize the child before the child is born and after that:

• Nice talking train
• Listen to the words that are useful
• It shows the fitting by religious parents

After the age of 7 days in the Islamic tradition, Prophet Muhammad made ​​aqiqah formerly the birth of his grandson Hasan and Husein, In time he cut iu two goats for a boy, then he told the cook with a lot of sauce and distributed to surrounding neighbors .

After which he cut two grandchildren's hair and say a prayer to the Almighty GOD with hope and desire to be pious son and a sense of how people carrier

• The incident was contained in a value which is as follows:
• Meaningful cut goat, throwing behavior than humans (inner)
• Bathing, meaning cleaning of dirt in order to avoid heart disease (inner)
• Shaving, intends to broaden it so that the baby thinking insightful and strategic

Besides, we also have to follow the daily interaction with our children doing the following three things:

1. Students and teaching

Perform to their doctrinal SCIENCE

Instilling of early religious values ​​in talking behave as parents, to our children, in this case is as follows:

Talk about that Because Almighty God always intended as invites and always good in spoken word even though they're talking to the issuing improper words removed, and away from any conversation itself forbidden by Him, as the saying roomates could cause harm us and others. So that direct our children will directly record it, Because they currently are not a good recorder reviewers who either

Example:

Instill in delivering the request to our wives well, so it will be recorded and imitated by our children in terms of like asking provide dish meal, coffee / tea, ask pick something up, or otherwise responding to requests or questions our wives with a kind word

Instill in delivering demand well to our children, so it will be recorded and imitated by our children in terms of like asking do something, ask pick something up, or otherwise responding to requests or questions our children with a kind word

Instill in submitting a request by either to friends, neighbors, brothers and sisters, so that will be recorded and imitated by our children in terms of like asking do something, ask pick something up, or otherwise answering their request or question us with a kind word

Instilled in them to do good actions in every aspect and distance themselves from the actions forbidden by the Lord to his father, mother, their siblings, and their friends as well as people outside the home as neighbors, brothers and sisters who do not live at home

2. Example

Science of invites charity with which they have learned by giving a good example to them

Exemplifies the real action to them for doing a good deed in all aspects and distance themselves from the actions forbidden by the Lord to his father, mother, their siblings, and their friends as well as people outside the home as neighbors, brothers and sisters living do not live at home

example:

Better exemplifies good talk when we talk to our mothers, bu they, with son-in-law and our children with the appropriate call so they will imitate it well

Worship, eat adab, adab Discard water, sleep adab, adab hanging out, etc.

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3. instilling faith

Provide good behavior grounded in sincerity in doing something that should not be told to do good and avoid evil should not be banned

Ahead of teens think they've started to grow away from the ugliness and hasten to do good because of their own

4.Container that can expand

Being a good listener of their complaint, their disappointments, so give them a boost and revive the spirit of this life

Make us as their friends in receiving consultation from the problems they face, then as parents can provide solutions and invite to goodness

Do not let our children lose their childhood childhood that can not be repeated by the busyness in our lifetime